maybe the real reason i'm talking about this is cause i realize that if it wasn't for other people i probably would never even get out of bed. i think if i was left to my own devices, i would never go out... never travel... never do anything with real effort. feel me? i would just do the bare minimum. i'd do the eat peanut butter/cup of noodles/instant oatmeal/just stay at home/watch tv thing. because if its just me, it doesn't make sense to do any more than that. i only go beyond that when i'm pushed by others and even still i find i have to fight myself to walk out the door most times.
is that a laziness issue or just a personality trait?
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Personally, I enjoy going out by myself. I can treat myself to things that my friends may not find important to them or without the pressures of paying for someone else's too.
I have a bad habit of going to fancy dinners by myself. $80 meals are great, but $160 or more for two people can be disheartening. I also like going to the movies by myself. For example, I went to see Transporter 2 and 3 alone because no one else was interested in the movie.
I don't go alone, I usually go with you. That's my clever way of saying come back asap lol
Umm You know I do a lot by myself. I don't know, sometimes you need to just chill alone, be comfortable without other people around. Doing things alone gives you different perspective than always seeing other faces, hearing other voices, people are great, but so are you as an individual. Spending time with yourself, treating yourself, loving yourself, it's all preparation for not feeling like you need people as motivation to move all the time. You spent 9 months by yourself in the womb...so to me it brings me back to how it all was....but umm yeah if you were a twin (which you aren't) that would totally mess up my theory..LOL..ttyl
pooky, but what if your dinner company was paying for themselves or you just didn't have to worry about the cost. would you then admit that you would have a better time and more memories if you weren't alone?
wife, ditto. that's why i don't get out much. there is no one to enable svetlana to come out and have some fun.
roomie, you just might be one of the few that legitimately has more fun on her own than with other people! smh. but nah you know you have more fun with me than if you were by yourself right?
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